One of the questions I am most frequently asked is, "Do you eat different foods than the rest of your family?" The short answer is, "Yes and no."
When I changed my lifestyle, I didn't tell people. I didn't want scrutiny and pressure, and I didn't want people to feel awkward around me. I wanted the freedom to eat what I wanted, when I wanted, and without judgment. It was important to me that my kids not see me as being obsessed with calorie counting. Children and adolescents are extremely impressionable, and it pains me greatly to hear moms obsess about weight in front of their kids, especially their daughters. They are setting an example that will be permanent in the minds of their children.
Meals that I cook at home are typically a meat, a veggie or two, and a starch. My plate will usually have a serving of meat, a double or triple serving of veggies, and a tiny (if at all) serving of the starchy food, depending on my caloric intake that particular day. If I do a one-dish meal that is more fattening, I may fix myself something different. It is still important to sit down together and focus on the fellowship, not on the difference in what is on our plate. My kids know that they are growing and it is important for them to eat many more calories than I. I stress the fact that I would like them to eat mostly healthy foods, but that I will in no way restrict the amount of food they take in.
It is possible to lose weight while raising a family. It is beneficial to the family to see healthier options available to them. Several times, my kids have seen me prepare something fresh and healthy for myself and they have been enticed by the beauty or the scent of the food. They have tried and sometimes enjoyed foods that would not have even been in the house had I not changed my habits.
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Social Networking and Weight Loss
Since beginning my healthy lifestyle journey on Feb 20, I have looked to social media to help keep me motivated. When I was tracking using Livestrong, I would read the threads in the communities there. Although I didn't participate in the conversation, I found a lot of helpful information.
Instagram has been a fun place for me to find motivation and ideas. If you search hashtags that apply to weight loss or healthy living, you'll find more info than you can process.
Weight loss groups on Facebook are abundant. I'm not on Facebook, but if I were, I would likely take advantage of this.
There is nothing so powerful as a before/during/after photo comparison, and social media makes that possible.
There is nothing so powerful as a before/during/after photo comparison, and social media makes that possible.
Thursday, December 4, 2014
Eating the Good Stuff and Loving It
Developing healthy eating habits will, many times, involve
eating a larger quantity of food and eating more often. For me, boosting my metabolism was
important. Before Feb 20, 2014 , I started almost every morning with
a Starbucks bottled mocha frappucino.
There. It’s out. How embarrassing. Mornings are busy for me, obviously. I’ve never been a breakfast eater. These bottled drinks can make you feel full
for several hours, and they give a burst of energy. Just a burst.
When I changed my lifestyle, I started out with a yogurt and
a piece of fruit in the morning. Within
a couple of months, I started using low cal toasted bread with a generous smear
of peanut butter. I placed a sliced
banana on top, and sprinkled it with cinnamon.
This is still my favorite. It
tastes like a donut to me. Hard boiled
eggs would be a great choice if I were crazy about them. I’m not.
I do love fried eggs, but don’t usually have time for all of that in the
morning.
Because I teach, my lunch time is limited and I’m still “on
duty” at lunch. I do enjoy most of the
Weight Watchers frozen meals, and I stock up on them when on sale. If I had more time to prepare my own lunches,
I could have healthier options. This has
worked for me so far, and I only eat them at school when I don’t have something
healthy and filling ready to take with me.
I always take time for lunch now.
Nothing will be more important than getting my fuel.
My morning and afternoon snacks are typically fresh fruit, a
string cheese, a 100 cal pack of almonds, or something equivalent. When I first started, I ate at least a bag of
Fit Active microwave popcorn per day. That
was my afternoon snack and sometimes again at night. It gave me the crunch and faint saltiness I
needed. You could add zero calorie
toppings, but I didn’t want to add more sodium.
In the early months, I had eggs at least a couple of
evenings each week. A lot of people say
that it is difficult to lose weight when cooking for a family. I get that, and there were plenty of nights
where I set down to a plate of eggs when I had fixed something different for
everyone else. Other options were to
skip the starch (or just have a spoonful) and load up on whatever veggie and
meat I had fixed, or just have a smaller amount of everything I fixed for the
family. Since I placed a high priority
on being “full” when I finished my food, I typically went for the limited
starch/loads of veggies approach.
With eggs, I switch it up.
I can do them in a wrap with lite sour cream and salsa on top for a
southwestern flavor. I love them
scrambled with baby spinach and roma tomatoes.
For my sweet snacks, I typically choose a fruity yogurt
sorbet bar or a frozen fudge bar. These
range from 70-120 calories, and have been a lifesaver for me.
A favorite lunch for me in the spring and summer was a
skinny bun (flat) from Aldi (100 cal), turkey breast, light mayo, light cheese
(sometimes), any and all veggies on top, with a side of Fit Active cheddar
flavor mini rice cakes (these are more like chips). I would add fresh fruit to my plate, and come
away very satisfied.
Since I wasn’t a water drinker, I substituted Crystal Light
for my soda addiction. They have great
flavors and I loved them as long as they were ice cold. I realize they contain a sugar substitute and
they aren’t the best option, but it was definitely better than what I was used
to putting into my body.
I have placed a high priority on not
allowing myself to get very hungry. If my stomach growls, I'd better find food fast! Lol! This is an important key to me staying on track. Most of my weight came from emergency eating...aka grabbing whatever was quick and accessible and then eating way too much of it because I felt famished. It's safe to say, I eat far more often now than I did 60lbs ago.
Oh, and I almost forgot...a tablespoon of peanut butter before bed. Seriously.
Oh, and I almost forgot...a tablespoon of peanut butter before bed. Seriously.
Crunching the Numbers Instead of the Potato Chips :-)
One of the first things someone will ask when talking about
weight loss is, “How long did it take?”
Like I said before, I didn’t really make this change to lose
weight. Once I started losing, it was a
combination of seeing and feeling the results that kept me going. Since details are fun, here ya go:
July – 4.2lbs
August – 4lbs. This included 6 days on our Smoky Mountain vacation. Once again, I planned my indulgences.
September – 7lbs Interesting how going back to school probably helped me lose a little more.
October – 6.2lbs
November - 4lbs Thank you, Thanksgiving!
- Loose skin will tighten better with slower loss
- My clothes last longer
- It is sustainable
I'm Back - And I Lost Something!
I can’t believe that almost ten months have passed since my
last post! 2014 has been such a good
year so far, and I’m here to tell you a little about why it was so positive
(cue the applause from all the sistas who have been waiting to read this).
In September, I posted a success on Instagram. It was a comparison photo of me from
May/September, and marked a 50lb weight loss. Several of you wanted details, and I’m getting
to that now. This is going to require
several posts where I’ll give more specifics, but this should help encourage you
or inspire you if you’re feeling ready to accept a lifestyle change. I’ll stick mostly to facts now, and get into
the rest in other posts.
- I used Livestrong to track my caloric intake (smartphone app or computer)
- Breakfast every single day
- Morning snack
- Lunch
- Afternoon snack
- Dinner
- Bedtime snack
- Cut soda (even diet soda)
- Increased water intake (not nearly enough, but hey…anything is better than nothing!)
Photo on left was within two weeks of starting, photo on right was October 15. Feb 20-Dec 2 60+ lbs lost |
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